November 18th, 2009

Get My Ex Back? Not Exactly The Way It Worked Out! Ha!

Posted in Counseling by admin

Not long ago I was in a situation with my boyfriend, where he said he had lost the flame for me. That the desire to be with me was gone. He said he wanted to see other people and his love for me…? Well, those feelings were gone. He felt distant and wanted to move on. As you can imagine I was devastated at the time. I was distraught and wondered whether I would ever win him back. But I pulled a Sandra Dee on him and went back home and spent some time thinking about myself, about all the things I gave up to be with him. And you know what? I realized that I had given up a lot. Much more than I realized at the time of our dating. At that point I wasn’t concernded with how to get him back. I became more aware of the things I needed to do, for me. I grew up… So here I was 6 months later in a grocery store and who did I see? My ex boyfriend with a friend of his. You can imagine his surprise when he saw that I had lost a lot of weight, was in great shape, and walking hand in hand with a new boyfriend.

To make a long story short, when he called me and tried to get me back the next day… I told him I ahd moved on! How’s that for a laugher?